In the 19th century, flowers were more than just a beautiful addition to gardens or décor; they were a secret code for expressing feelings and sentiments that words often left unsaid. This “language of flowers,” or floriography, gained popularity during the Victorian era, when strict social norms limited verbal expressions of emotion. Each bloom carried a specific meaning, allowing bouquets to become heartfelt messages crafted with care.
Today, the Victorian language of flowers offers a romantic way to weave symbolism into your wedding day, making your bouquet a deeply personal statement. At Wanderie, we’ve always been a little secretly obsessed with floriography. Susanne used the language of flowers when crafting her own bridal bouquet and loves to use it for current brides.
Pictured is Susanne’s bridal bouquet (before she was even a florist!) featuring: Eucalyptus is a symbol of strength, protection, and abundance. Zinnias are a symbol of friendship and lasting affection. Peach roses symbolize thankfulness and sincerity; this specific variety is called Carpe Diem, which was also special for the day. Billy Balls symbolize joy, optimism, and good health. Veronica symbolizes fidelity and devotion.
Let’s explore the rich meanings behind some popular blooms and how they can enhance your special day:
Meaningful Flowers for a Bride’s Bouquet
Roses
- Meaning: Love and passion (red), purity and innocence (white), gratitude (pink), and friendship (yellow).
- Why Include Them: Roses are timeless, and their variety of meanings allows brides to convey layers of emotion. For instance, combining white and pink roses can symbolize pure love and gratitude for a partner.
Peonies
- Meaning: Romance, prosperity, and a happy marriage
- Why Include Them: With their lush, full blooms, peonies are not only breathtaking but also carry a wish for a joyful and prosperous union.
Rosemary
- Meaning: Remembrance
- Why Include Them: Not only do they make your bouquet smell divine, they can symbolize a missing loved one while you keep them close to you during the most important day of your life.
Lavender
- Meaning: Devotion and serenity
- Why Include Them: Known for their calming scent, sprigs of lavender can add a touch of elegance and texture to your bouquet while symbolizing the peace and commitment you bring into your marriage.
Blue Delphinium
- Meaning: Positivity and grace
- Why Include Them: Delphiniums bring a unique touch of height and texture to a bouquet, while their meaning of positivity resonates beautifully with the hope and excitement of a wedding day.
Hydrangeas
- Meaning: Gratitude, grace, and heartfelt emotions
- Why Include Them: These voluminous blooms are perfect for making a statement while expressing deep appreciation for your partner and loved ones.
Ranunculus
- Meaning: Charm and attraction
- Why Include Them: Ranunculus blooms are a gorgeous choice for brides looking to add layers of texture and vibrant colors, while also symbolizing the captivating allure of love.
Tulips
- Meaning: Passion and Love
- Why Include Them: Adding tulips to your bouquet or arrangements can add a class garden feel.
Designing a Bouquet with Meaning
To incorporate the language of flowers into your bouquet, consider the emotions or messages you want to highlight. Are you celebrating eternal love and fidelity? Include ivy and white roses. Looking for romance and prosperity? Combine peonies and pink ranunculus.
Collaborating with your florist to design a bouquet steeped in symbolism will create a personal, meaningful addition to your wedding day. Not only will the blooms look stunning, but they’ll also tell a story unique to your love.
Let the Victorian language of flowers inspire your choices and add a timeless layer of beauty and meaning to your celebration. For extra credit, consider readying The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh .. one of our faves!
xoxo, Susanne
Vendor Shoutouts!
Cover photo and first photo by Rkm photography of Elizabeth Martin
Bouquet with veil by Pear and Grace Photography
Last photo by Snaps with Joy of Kimberly Salmon